Sunday, February 7, 2016

October 2014♡♡

October 2, 2014 I revieved a text from Mack saying he'd been in a car accident my heart dropped.  Tears began flowing so many things going through my head and all I could do was wait for him to call me. He sent me a picture and from what I could tell he was so extremely lucky he was breathing and walking away from the wreck.  I was an emotional wreck waiting for him, my mom kept telling me "He is okay, you know he is living" but I new I wouldn't be okay until I saw him. I called too see what they were doing and if he needed a ride. He said, "they wanna take me in the ambulance too check everything but I refused."  My mom immediately said he is staying here so we can watch him if he has a concussion he needs too be watched and not sleep. Luckily he has such good friends and Emmanuel brought him too my house, as soon as he walked through the door I didn't wanna let go, What if I didn't get this hug? What if Paisley wouldn't know her dad? So many things went through my mind. But I so grateful he had someone watching over him that night. He was lucky to come out with a huge bump on his head, bruising, and airbag burn. He was so beyond lucky in this accident, never ever do I want this too happen again.  So he didn't have a car now and his truck was hooked up too the trailer so he was going to be my chauffer for the morning he dropped me off too school than he told me he was going too smith and Edwards too get hiking boots with lana.  Far from hiking boots and lots more expensive did I know he was going too pick up the ring that day. He stopped by the hospital too show my mom and than we were off too go hunting it didn't even cross my mind that the ring was so close too me and I'd be engaged that night. He planned on asking me on Saturday morning while we waited for the sunrise on the side hill watching elk come through. But he was way too excited we got up to the camp late by the time we stopped and got groceries, we got camp all set up and waited for his grandpa too get up their too finish helping him. We finished up and decide it was time for bed too get a few hours of sleep I couldn't figure out what was going on but he was so jittery and rumbling through his suitcase I decided too just go too bed, yes I was asleep. He pulled at my arms too wake me and said I need too tell you something me being onery while I'm sleeping said, "It can wait until morning, just go too sleep, No it really can't Shaylie just wake up for a second please" It was so cute he was so excited and just couldn't wait any longer. He knelt down on his knee and began telling me how much I meant too him, and how he knew it wasn't how we planned but he knew it was going to be the best adventure he would ever take and he didn't wanna take this adventure without me being by his side 24/7. Yes of course!! I woke up with a sparkly gorgeous ring on my left hand thinking it was a dream♡♡ We didn't have service, and we weren't coming home until Sunday evening. So we decided to go to the top of the mountain and send a picture to our family that afternoon.  I was beyond excited my heart was so full, and I knew I was being so blessed♡

Making Decisions

We were headed out for a date night of shopping for Paisley, Go Kart Racing, and yummy dinner.  Go Kart racing was so much fun we than stopped at Olive Garden too get a bite to eat, we talked about what we needed to get started doing and we first talked about getting engaged and when the wedding would be.  How soon? Do we wait too have Paisley than get married? How about insurance for Paisley? So many "adult" decisions had too be made in such little time. We than stopped at the mall and then we realized we were sitting in Kay jewelers, wow my sweetheart didn't realize what he had done. Lol He gave the jeweler the budget and they sat out multiple different rings too choose from I gave him the top 3 and than Mack chose which one well kinda I helped...haha Me being blonde not realizing he was purchasing the ring with me right their.  We stopped at Babies R Us looked around and Daddy being so excited said let's get this play pen it's on sale and it'll be perfect for her. So our first thing for baby girl was bought :) It was such a fun night together with many decisions made so we could move forward with the rest of the decisions. 

The First Step

I made the first Dr appointment yes being 17 and going into the dr offices knowing I would come out with the real answers was huge. I wanted Mack too be their but unfortunately he had only been working at nucor for a month and couldn't take anytime off, I was so bummed that I couldn't get in when he could be their.  He supported me with going without him and he'd be too every appointment from their on out. I chose too take my mom and sister with me too the dr so I wouldn't have too go alone, I new I'd be about 15+ weeks but wasn't sure exactly. I ended up being 19.5 weeks so the Dr. suggested too make another appointment for that week too find out the gender.  When we heard the baby's heart beat I was so blessed too know that my daddy is taking care of this sweet spirit and preparing her too come be with us.  He gave us a due date and it was February 12, 2015 I began too cry, that's my dad's birthday and too know that he was sending something so special on that day meant the world too me. I know Mack and I made a choice but I feel that we gained so many more blessings from it then anything.  Finding out the gender we were blessed with a healthy baby girl with all 10 fingers amd 10 toes on the way.  We were so excited, we already had her name picked out it was going to be Paisley, we had yet too pick out her middle name.  We were driving too Ogden too do a little shopping for this sweet baby and we decided her middle name would be Scott after my dad. Paisley Scott Anderson was going to be joining our family February 12, 2015 we were beyond excited. 

Young Parents♡

The day Mack and I decided too take a pregnancy test was a day that so many emotions went through my mind. I was disappointed in myself, but on the other had I was beyond blessed to know that I was carrying such a special gift from our Heavenly Father.  We decided too not tell our parents until we were ready and when that time came we would do it together no matter what.  We talked for hours about what we were going to do and how we would help one another through this choice we made.  We let about 3 or 4 weeks by and decided we needed too tell our parents, it was the hardest thing I had ever done.   Although they took it very well they wanted too know what we wanted too do and how we would support this baby. Where our future was going too take us. Together we decided that we were going too take care of this sweet baby, and we made the decision too get married. We knew it was not going too be easy and we were gonna have trials, but together we will make it through anything.  That's a very true saying we are still living by day to day and step by step. :)

From the Beginning♡

Out story didn't quite begin as soon as he liked but eventually I got on the same page and we clicked. We first met when he was teaching my older sister how too long board while she was waiting for me too get out of volleyball. Nothing really was said that evening besides a hello to one another.  His brother is my age and I remember passing him in the hall the next day and told me, "My brother thinks you are super cute", yes I'll admit I blushed and did that little chuckle of whatever. Things never went on until I was a sophomore, and he was a senior in high school.  He asked me on Facebook if we could be friends on snapchat, we would snapchat all day everyday things never got boring.  He finally became brave and asked for my number and we than began texting and going too lunch together.  Finally on Friday, September 20, 2013 we went to the high school football game together with his friend. We went to peach city had ice cream and did the usual drive around town in the truck and chat :) It became close too curfew so he took me to my car and it began rainning, we walked to my car and something clicked and we both new it♡♡ Our first kiss was a moment I'll never forget. It was a perfect first night getting to know each other not just through the phone and our friends.